FAQ’s

FAQs

What is the Dress Code?

Formal Attire Requested. Think Garden Party Chic—long, summery dresses for women and dark suits for men are preferred.

For The Ladies — Please Note this is an outdoor tented wedding, block heels, wedges or flats will be easier to walk on grass and uneven ground.

What is the Style of the Reception?

After the ceremony you are invited to join the newlyweds for an, Endless Cocktail Reception!

In lieu of a traditional sit-down dinner, you should expect an elevated evening consisting of a delightful array of passed hors d’oeuvres, chef-curated food stations, and a variety of delicious bites to enjoy throughout the reception; each element having been specially designed to enhance the evening and foster a social atmosphere perfect for mingling, dancing and making unforgettable memories together!

What time is the Ceremony?

The Ceremony is scheduled for 4:30 pm. Guests are welcome to arrive at 4 pm for the 4:30pm Ceremony.

Are children Welcome?

While we love your little ones— this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you can enjoy a fun and relaxing weekend or evening with us!

Is There Anything to Consider When Traveling to the Venue?

Please plan ahead for potential traffic and traffic delays, especially if you’re coming from out of town. There tends to be summer traffic driving north from New Jersey past New York City. We recommend checking local traffic updates and allowing extra time to ensure a smooth arrival for a 4:30 pm Ceremony.

What if I need assistance getting around the property?

Buttermilk Falls Inn offers golf carts for all guests during the weekend. If you'd like a lift around the property, feel free to ask any golf cart attendant or driver. However, the grounds are perfect for a leisurely stroll, so walking is a lovely option if you're up for it!

Will there be a hotel block held at a local hotel?

There is a hotel block being held at The Double Tree by Hilton in Poughkeepsie. The block is available to all guests until July 1st 2025. After July 1, 2025 you will not be able to book a room using the block discount at reception when booking your room.

Double Tree by Hilton: 40 Civic Center Plaza, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601. Phone: (845). 485 . 5300

Where do we park if we drive in early?

There is a designated parking area at Buttermilk Falls Inn, with signs to guide you to the correct lot. Additionally, we are offering shuttle transportation on a scheduled loop from the DoubleTree Hotel in Poughkeepsie to the Inn. This service is designed to ensure guests can easily and comfortably arrive at the ceremony on time, without the worry of driving.

Is there smoking on the premises?

Buttermilk Falls is a Non-Smoking property but for the Wedding & Reception there will be designated smoking areas provided for those who smoke. We request that those of you who do partake in smoking, please be respectful of the Historic property and only smoke in the designated smoking areas.

Is breakfast provided Sunday morning for guests at the Inn?

Yes, breakfast is provided in the main dining area of the Inn between 8 and 10 am Sunday morning August 3, 2025. Checkout for Inn guests is promptly after breakfast at 11 am.

What time does the reception end?

The reception will conclude around 10 pm.

Transportation & Shuttle Service?

A return shuttle to the DoubleTree will be available shortly after the reception at 10 pm, with a second loop and third loops as the evening continues, ending at 1 am.

If you prefer not to use the shuttle, please keep in mind that getting Ubers, Lyfts, or taxis may become more difficult as the night goes on.

Is the Buttermilk Falls Spa available to guests?

Yes, the Spa is available to all guests who wish to partake in relaxation before the Wedding if arriving in town early or planning to extend your stay after the event.